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4 Things That Make Your Children Smarter

Every children are special. Depends on how parents treat and taking care of them. My experience told me that the more we gain our children’s ability, the more they get smarter. These are 4 main things that make your children smarter.


Musik Angklung
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Trough music, children’s IQ will be increasing. When a baby listens to music, his brain will accept some signal that will give good effect to its nerves. It will help the brain growth. Listening and playing music also works to children to get smarter especially when they able to play one of the music instrument. Sing a song will be one of the simple thing to make children’s memory better. Just do those things happily with their parents. In my experience, I always sing some children song when my daughter was 1-3 years old. I got surprised when she gets more talkative and speak clearly. Now, she is 10 and love to play Angklung at school once a week. She also eager to learn playing guitar. I think, I will buy her a classic guitar first for her training.


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This is the first thing that children know. They heard mom’s voice when they were in mom’s uterus. As they born, more vocabularies will be heard. Although a baby couldn’t talk yet, but making conversation in his mother tongue will make his brain growth and increasing speaking ability.

When the children grow being a teenager, teach them some good mother tongue, polite sentences, and other foreign language. So, they could learn a lot more than they know at school. Trough a simple thing that they see in daily activities, we could say some vocabularies. They will remain it and ask more about it. By the time they get more vocabularies, they will be able to make sentences and making conversation in foreign language.


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Children usually love pictures and short dialogue on books. As parents we have to choose the appropriate books for them. But the most important thing is we have to read with them not reading for them. So the bonding between parents and children will happen. When the children asking some question about the story, we could give them some advice about the character in the story. The children will get a lot of information and knowledge trough reading. Do this habit regularly so the children will love reading books. Just make it fun for a smarter children’s brain.


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This is also the main thing on making children smarter. When we give healthy food, children’s body will be healthy too. Give them balance nutrition everyday so it will affect their way of thinking and their brain health. Protein sources will be the nice substance in their meal for breakfast for example. We have to combine some other sources such as carbohydrates, fruits, and vegetables. So, all of that substances will be reacted in their body to support their activities well.

Healthy food will create healthy brain.

So, be a smart parents for smarter children.

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Why Children Do Bullying?

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I felt sad when my daughter cried yesterday, after school. Her friends told me that she was bullied by her classmate. It’s a boy. He asked an answer for Math but my daughter didn’t give it. He said, ”Monkey!” to my daughter. As long as I know, that boy named, Al, never did something mean to my daughter. Even the most naughty boy in her class never hurts my daughter.

I asked myself, why is Al doing that? Maybe because he’s angry didn’t get the Math answer or something else. At that time I was so angry and wanted to say something to Al’s mom. But I tried to calm myself and clear my mind. I just said, “Just ignore if your friend say bad words to you. If you’re crying, he will bully you again and again. Be a tough girl.”

As I arrived home, I discussed it with my husband and he said the same thing to my daughter. “You don’t have to fight back. Just ignore him. That’s enough,” said my husband to his girl.

My daughter is still in her sadness for a couple of minutes. Maybe she was confused about her attitude to Al at school. Once again, I tried to cure her scar deep inside her heart. “You are Mom and Dad’s brave girl. Don’t cry anymore if it happens again. Ok?”

But for a child, ignoring the bullying is not enough, and it’s not a solution for long term. I try to think, why a child could say such bad words to their friends? Is it because of his neighborhood or his parents habitual at home? If parents bully their children, then they will imitate those bad languages and they will yell it when they get in to other environment for sure. Then they get used to it.

Moral principal is our responsibility in parenting. If there is no moral education at home then the children would be like an animal. Uncontroll, wild and free. It’s pathetic. My daughter is a child with the gentle habitual. Although sometimes, I yell at her about discipline, but I never say anything bad to her. Especially her Dad, there’s no bad word in every single conversation to my daughter. I really inspired by his gentle affection. So, no wonder my daughter’s crying because of that bad word.

Cause I realized, bad words will create bad child. A Tiger should treat his son like a Tiger. A human should be treated with love and gentleness. Even a Tiger mother has her own way to love her little tiger.

So, whose duty to prevent the children from bullying? It’s ours as parents and teachers at school should be one of the main elements to see the symptom. This is a serious problem for us. One thing that I understand from this experience is ‘don’t bully your children if you want your children be happier than yourself.’